: Keep your hobbies, friends, and career at the center of your life. He should be a planet orbiting your sun, not the sun itself.
Now, they were in the "Phase 2" of their relationship: the comfortable plateau where boundaries often go to die. why-men-love-bitches-2
The "nice girl" Argov warns against is not genuinely kind; she is a people-pleaser. She fears conflict and bends her boundaries to accommodate a man, hoping her sacrifice will be rewarded with love. The "bitch" does not "do" for a man to get love; she "is" herself, and attracts love through her strength. : Keep your hobbies, friends, and career at