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Veteran Chabad practitioners report that this practice does not lead to despair. It leads to a strange, joyful release. Because once you realize that God accepts your very inability, the pressure to be perfect vanishes. You are left with a paradox: You work harder than ever on your character, but you no longer identify with the results. You become a “Beinoni” in the deepest sense: perpetually failing, perpetually getting up, and perpetually weeping—not tears of sadness, but tears of a connection so intimate it hurts.

In embracing compassion and empathy, we not only uplift others but also contribute to our own inner harmony. This practice reminds us that our individual journeys are interconnected with the journeys of those around us, and that together, we can create a more harmonious and supportive community. tanya 157

Tanya 157 offers a radical alternative: Pray anyway. When the words feel like lies, do not suppress that feeling. Let that dissonance become your prayer. The gap between what you are saying and what you feel—that very gap—is a tear in reality. And that tear is your true voice. Veteran Chabad practitioners report that this practice does

The gates of structured religion may close. But the gate of tears—the raw, unmediated, broken-hearted cry of a being that knows it cannot save itself—that gate has no lock. It never did. It was never a gate at all. It was a wound in the universe through which the infinite pours in. You are left with a paradox: You work

And that, according to Chapter 157 of the Tanya , is the only prayer that God truly cannot refuse.